Fourteen. Laying better foundations

The life I touch for good or ill will touch another life, and that in turn another, until who knows where the trembling stops or in what far place my touch will be felt.

Frederick Buechner

I repeat: Unconditional love is something we create. It’s come from the Divine, it flows through us, and our needs get met as we give this love to others. So far so good. We’ve addressed a number of issues and foundations in our lives that will make this doable, so now let’s look beyond the baggage and into the possibilities. In turning away from the orientation of people loving us, seeing us, speaking our love language, we can turn towards our relational strengths and start developing them. If we’re to create love, what are the basis and ingredients of that creation, and are we prepared for the process?